Cheers! Let’s Create your Signature Drink

You’ve given your utmost attention to even the smallest of details throughout your wedding planning. Now, let’s talk about just one more! Creating a signature drink (or two) for you wedding will not only be memorable for your guests, but every year you and your husband can make that drink to celebrate!

What is Your Go-To Drink?

To create a signature drink that you’ll actually love, you need to start with looking at both of your standard order. Leanne Strickler, the head mixologist and signature-cocktail-crafting pro with Blue Plate in Chicago, places drinks in four categories:

  1. Strong like a Manhattan
  2. Sour like a Tom Collins
  3. Sweet like a French martini
  4. Low alcohol, with something like sparkling wine as the base

This will help determine the alcohol level of your drink and will start giving you a better idea of the flavor profile.

What’s Trending?

Looking at the latest trends can bring lots of new ideas to the table. We all know the seasonal trends, spices for the Autumn, lemonade for the Summer, and floral for the Spring, but you can also use the flavor combinations of the now! 2017 is the year of tradition and according to Vogue, rum is the new tequila and guests are looking for more Spirits.

You can also incorporate trending colors. However, we encourage you to stay away from trying to make the drink a different color and include the color through garnishes. Millenial pink is the color of 2017, but that doesn’t mean you should drink it! Try garnishing your drink with an edible flower link the Redbud instead of using food dye or making a drink just because of the color.

Bring in Your Style

This is your drink, drawing in your style can be one of the best ways to add your personality into this drink. This could be your personal everyday style of the theme of your wedding. If you’re having a rustic wedding, think about including a spin on old favorites; instead of just a Jack and Ginger, take a nice bottle of Jack Daniels, add in half teaspoon of honey with some fresh ginger and top the drink off with soda water.

Make a Party of It

If you needed an excuse to have a party, bring all of your friends in on it! Have a mixology party where you can all try and create the best cocktails that showcase the bride, the groom, the theme, and/or the overall style of you both!

Witty, Tear-Jerking, and Genuine Wedding Vow Ideas

Now of days, writing wedding vows has started to become more attractive than traditional wedding vows. They can be much more of a personal touch, but when you start thinking about writing your wedding vows, many of us get stuck at one point or another. We love our better half but writing it down with so many words can be difficult, especially if you are not a strong writer but even if you are! However, once you start writing, you can wow your guests!

Before you start writing, talk to your better half and see what direction they are taking their vows. Some couples want a romantic wedding all around, others want their soon-to-be spouse to write as they feel. That’s exactly why we wanted to give you a guide to the trifecta of wedding vow writing, the witty, the tears, and all the feels!

Are you the funny one in the family always making everyone laugh? Or maybe you’re not but want to stretch your talents and show more of your witty side that your bride or groom has only really seen before. When you start writing witty vows, make sure you don’t just have all jokes. This is your wedding day! You should still include emotion in your writing and tell a story of why you love your new wife or husband.

Once you have an idea of the warm material, start thinking about the inside jokes you have together. Are you both sports fans? Maybe you are diehard Boston fans, consider modifying a line from “Sweet Caroline” into your vows.

“I, Adam, take you, Sweet Maria. Good times never seemed so good. I’ve been inclined to believe they never would, but now I know, you always understood.”

Maybe one or both of you are Trekkies (Star Trek fans). Instead of writing a line Klingon that only a few people will know, consider including an analogy of the two of you and the series.

“I, Kate, take you, Sam, I may not have a beard but with this ring, I give to you, is made from a hammer, with this I vow to fight to the death for you, my Kahless.”

Does one of you not know how to cook? Or maybe, one is an adventurous chef that likes to try new dinner ideas that involve cow tongues or interesting looking fish.

“I, Mark, take you, Hannah, I figure as long as you bring me my Bud, I promise I will try to eat your cooking as long as you don’t make me look at it first.”

No matter the interest you both have, the more important part of writing wedding vows to be sincere and genuine. Don’t try to be a couple you are not, but have fun when writing your vows. Keep them simple but make sure to always include some of the best parts of your relationship.

Flight Travel for the Budget Savvy Bride

Whether you want to travel away for your honeymoon, bachelor/bachelorette party, or even your wedding! The costs seem to be too high to even consider it! The average cost of a domestic flight in the US is $346.72, and this is without any luggage fees! Here’s what you have to do to get that price down!

Cheapest Days and Times to Buy

Can’t wait to book the flight? Try to at least wait 3.5 months before you go.

  • Waiting can be your best friend. Booking at an average of 54 days before you go is shown to give buyers the best pricing options. Now, that is an average and based on the study from Cheap Air, your best window is between 3 weeks and 3.5 months out from your vacation date. However, you should keep an eye on the changes in prices and the days of the week.
  • Best day to shop: The best time to book a flight in the U.S. is usually Tuesday at about 3 p.m. Eastern Standard Time.

Reason: Many airlines release weekly sales late Monday or early Tuesday and by mid-afternoon, competing airlines have matched the lowest prices to show up on the first page result.

Cheapest Days and Times to Fly

Don’t want to fly during the cheapest times? Try to at least fly one leg with them!

  • Travel during inconvenient times. That would be when most people wouldn’t want to fly, overnight or during meal times.
  • Cheapest days: The cheapest days to fly in the U.S. are Tuesdays, Wednesday, Saturdays. Midweek is typically best for any international flights.

Cheapest Locations to Fly by Month

None of these most affordable places to fly to are up your alley? Try looking for places near these you can drive to from here!

  • January:
    • Domestic: Los Angeles
    • International: Melbourne
  • February:
    • Domestic: Honolulu
    • International: Hong Kong
  • March:
    • Domestic:  Flagstaff, Arizona
    • International: Buenos Aires
  • April:
    • Domestic: Chicago
    • International: Copenhagen
  • May:
    • Domestic: Fort Lauderdale, Florida
    • International: London
  • June:
    • Domestic: San Antonio, Texas
    • International: Beijing
  • July:
    • Domestic: Boston
    • International: Sydney
  • August:
    • Domestic: New York City
    • International: Berlin
  • September:
    • Domestic: Orlando
    • International: Rome, Italy
  • October:
    • Domestic: New Orleans
    • International: Cape Town, South Africa
  • November:
    • Domestic: San Francisco
    • International: Rio de Janiero
  • December:
    • Domestic: Las Vegas
    • International: Frankfurt, Germany

How to have an Eco-Friendly Wedding

Many of us have become eco-conscientious over the years and for a good reason. According to research, New Hampshire is the 9th most eco-friendly state but our two neighbors Vermont and Massachusetts are numbers 1 and 2 on that list respectively.

How can you stay eco-friendly? Let’s start with…

The Dress

Wearing a wedding dress for the first time can feel unreal, after all of those childhood wedding dreams it is finally becoming a reality! Many brides do have a problem with only being able to wear their wedding dress once then off to a sealed bag for the remainder of its life. Instead, try these options:

Wearing mom’s/grandma’s/auntie’s dress. This could be the same for any special person in your life. If you don’t love the dress exactly as it is, ask for a local seamstress to help modify the dress to your wants.

Renting a dress. Now, this option is becoming more popular as wedding dress prices have increased over the years. Look at a site like:

  1. Tradesy.com– Buy direct from other brides selling their gowns.
  2. PreownedWeddingGowns.com– You can find designer labels at 80% off!
  3. Newlywed.com– They have a “try before you buy” option, no commitments!

Buying from an eco-friendly designer. You can use a local designer or shop at up and coming sustainable designer Reformation.

The Invitations

Use recycled paper. Now, this is a must for an eco-friendly person but keep in mind that not only the paper should be recycled, but you could have a drop box at the wedding for those invitations.

Use seed paper. Everything from your save the dates to thank you cards can be made with seed paper from Bloomin.

At Bloomin our Seed Paper is made by hand in Boulder, CO. We take un-dyed, 100% post-consumer/ post-industrial recycled paper, break it down into paper pulp that started as FSC paper. We use old-school paper making techniques and handmade molds and deckles to handcraft each sheet. Bloomin Paper is packed with flower, vegetable, herb, grass, tree and many other varieties of seeds. Its easy to grow and cultivate! For consumers who receive seed paper, just soak the paper in water, plant under a thin layer of soil, and watch our seed paper take root and sprout in a few short days!

 

The Night

Make sure the flowers are organic. Ask your florist for all organic flowers that are in season.

Have the wedding outside. If possible, having an outdoor wedding will save on energy for the lights during the ceremony.

Have a recycle bin. We mentioned this before, you can help the venue if the do recycle or make sure all items get recycled yourself afterward.

Team up with another bride to share all decorations. This can be tricky since you both have to compromise, but you can help save the environment and costs with this option!

Wedding Insurance

Your wedding day is going to be an unforgettable event, but it can come with a hefty price tag once all is said and done. The average wedding in the Untied States costs couples $26,645; however, most couples can spend less than $10,000.

Here in New Hampshire, couples spend above average at $27,020. After reaching your necessary limits for guest counts at your venue, adding extra guests can add $180 to $220 per person to your budget.

Average Wedding Cost by Number of Guests

Number of guests less than 50 $8,917 – $14,861
Number of guests between 50 and 100 $13,578 – $22,629
Number of guests between 100 and 200 $21,684 – $36,139
Number of guests between 200 and 300 $27,966 – $46,610
Number of guests more than 300 $54,108 – $90,179

Wedding Insurance

That’s why couples are opting to use wedding insurance, just in case! Because, let’s be honest, no one wants to be out over $20,000!

Common wedding insurance claims involve vendors who fail to appear, venues that back out of hosting the event, extreme weather, and injury or illness. Wedding insurance costs generally start around $100 for minimum coverage and can exceed $1,000 for lavish ceremonies.

NOTE: Before buying a new policy, check your current homeowners or renter insurance, they may cover liability for your wedding. 

What wedding insurance covers…

1. Vendor failures, like the venue going out of business or a mistaken double booking, make up 30% of wedding insurance claim dollars. Wedding insurance policies will often reimburse you if you have to book a last-minute vendor or reschedule the wedding.

2. Getting injured, “As you might expect, we do see many injuries that occur on the dance floor,” says Steve Lauro, vice president at Aon Affinity, the parent company of WedSafe, a seller of wedding insurance. Among claims to WedSafe, 28% are from injuries or accidents that occur at weddings.

3. Extreme weather such as hurricanes, tornados, earthquakes, etc. this typically doesn’t include a rain shower or a cloudy day. 16% of wedding claims to Travelers are due to extreme weather.

4. Medical emergencies, if someone close to you falls ill before your wedding day, cancellation policies typically cover the costs to reschedule. These represented about 6% of wedding cancellation claims to WedSafe in 2016, Lauro says.

5. Lost or ruined attire, we may not be as lucky as the bride in #Girlboss by Sophia Amoruso, and having the wedding dress delivered just in time to walk down the isle. Attire represents 2% of wedding claims paid by Travelers.

Note: Tuxes and gowns are such an important part of weddings that they are commonly included in wedding cancellation policies.

What wedding insurance does not cover…

1. Cold feet or a change of heart, with few exceptions.
2. A rainy day, rather than extreme weather.
3. Theft or loss of engagement ring. 

NOTE: You can purchase ring insurance separately, or your homeowners insurance may cover it!
Deciding to switch to a different vendor, such as a caterer or florist, once you’ve already paid a deposit.

Make sure to always read the fine print! If your wedding includes fireworks, bounce houses, live animals or other attractions insurers find risky, you could be declined for a wedding policy. Some insurers may still offer you a policy but exclude problems involving these types of attractions.

The Best and Worst Wedding Advice

Asking for advice is an important part of planning a wedding. Many people have never done it before, so we turn to our family and friends to help us make our special day perfect. Even though they are trying to help, some advice isn’t always so helpful.

The Worst

The necessary rituals. The worst advice any bride gets is that something is “necessary”. Whether it be your MIL telling you the candle ritual is necessary, or your wedding planner insisting on ‘the DJ everyone uses’, your wedding day is just that: YOUR wedding day. There are so many details that I thought were absolutely necessary (programs, favors, 3 menu choices) that ended up going unnoticed. I wish I would have known that those things didn’t really matter, and instead focused more on the things that my fiancé and I truly cared about. -Chloe, married October 2015

The details don’t matter. Someone told me that “the details and the look of our wedding didn’t matter”. While I recognized that our marriage was THE most important part of the day, the details, flowers, favors and the overall feel of our wedding was important to me; both because I am a designer and desired a beautiful day for us to remember for years to come, and also because I wanted our guests to feel loved while they were there celebrating alongside us! While the details of your day are secondary to the promises you’re making to one another, they are still important. -Michaela, married September 2016

The must & need. I came to learn that anytime someone started a sentence with “You must” or “You need to” it was most likely going to be some very unhelpful advice. We received plenty of odd looks and various comments when we told people we weren’t going to have bridesmaids or groomsmen but I’m so glad we didn’t let that affect us; it was personally a fantastic decision. Dismiss any of those “musts” and “haves” and focus on what feels right to you! -Liz, married June 2015

The Best

Don’t make any drastic changes to your appearance. You may want to try a new hairstyle but try to wait until after your wedding day. You have to ask yourself, “Would I be happy on my wedding day even if I hated this new style?” Having your classic beauty shine on your wedding and memorialized through the photos may be the best option.

Always ask for help! We know planning a wedding is time-consuming and a lot of work, that’s why leaning on friends and family while delegating tasks will be a lifesaver on your stress levels!

Make sure to schedule a time to be with your guests. We know this is your day and we encourage you to do what makes you the happiest on this day but don’t forget all of those that came to celebrate with you. Take some time and thank your guests at their tables and don’t forget those thank you cards!

Always have an open line of communication with your vendorsFor your photographer, make sure you have a timeline on your wedding day for photos and a list of photos you want the photographer to get. They, of course, will take more photos, but they might not know you desperately want a photo with just you and your Great Aunt Kathy. For your DJ or band, make sure they know your taste in music and even give them a list of songs your want them to play and a list of songs you don’t want them to play.

Check your stress levels! We know you’ve put in countless hours of time into your wedding day but if something does go wrong, take it in strides! Ask for help to fix the problem and just keep moving on, the small stuff isn’t what’s most important today!

Eat and be married! You picked out the perfect selection of appetizers, dinner, and dessert; you deserve to eat it! Take time to enjoy dinner, the good music, and be with your new husband.

Spring into Wedding Season

The snow is starting to melt, and the warm air is starting to stream, that means Spring is ready to bloom and so are the flowers! Spring weddings kick off our season, and we couldn’t be more excited! From spring flowers, fresh produce, to bright colors, here is your guide to getting hitched in the Spring!

Spring Flowers

We have created a list of flowers that are in-season during the Spring months (in the United States). We have also organized them by name, color, scent, and price thanks to The Knot. You can organize the chart by each category by clicking on the header name.

Fresh Food

The winter is finally over and with the flowers starting to bloom, so is some of the most delicious food! Our chef always incorporates the freshest ingredients in each meal, but you can also look through the menus of your banquet facility to see what choices would be best for your wedding date. Thanks to She Knows, we can know exactly what to eat in the Spring!

Spring Fruits

  • Apricots
  • Avocados
  • Blueberries
  • Cherimoya
  • Grapefruit 
  • Kiwi
  • Lemons
  • Pineapple 
  • Strawberries
  • Tomatoes

Spring Vegetables 

  • Artichokes
  • Arugula
  • Asparagus
  • Broccoli
  • Cabbage
  • Carrots
  • Fava beans
  • Fiddlehead ferns
  • New potatoes
  • Ramps
  • Rhubarb
  • Spinach
  • Sugar snap peas
  • Vidalia onions
  • Zucchini

Spring Colors

The color experts over at Pantone have declared the top ten Spring colors for the 2017 season!

Colors this season transcend cultural and gender norms. Vivid brights give way to excitement and optimism, though quiet stability prevails in this season’s palette.

Wedding Traditions: Luck of the Irish

With St. Patrick’s Day only two days away, we wanted to spread some Irish luck with a post on Irish wedding traditions! We all know that one person who will be attending our wedding that thinks they are the Lord of … Continue reading