Creating a Seating Chart that makes Everyone Happy

So you’ve invited all of your friends and family to your wedding, how exciting! Now, with all of the RSVP’s swarming into your mailbox, it’s time to get organized and find everyone a spot to sit!

To Number or Not to Number

We typically see that tables are numbered, and for good reason, it helps everyone understand the layout of the room, and you can easily find people when they say they’re at a particular table. However, you may want to consider not numbering your table and use cities, mountains, colors, or something special between the two of you instead.

Here’s why, when you number tables people automatically assume the lower the number, the better friends you are with the couple. This isn’t true! Sometimes, finding people seats with other people they like or would like means you’re seated at a higher numbered table. This can be especially hard if your parents are divorced and would prefer to sit in separate locations, what parents get the lower numbered table?

Family Tables

Typically the parents of the couple would sit opposite each other with the grandparents and other close relatives (the officiant too). However, as we mentioned earlier, some parents may be divorced so consider the option of each parent and their spouse to host their own table close to the front of the room to defuse any awkwardness that could have arisen otherwise.

Don’t Over Think Friends

Your wedding venue will typically tell you the table sizes they are using and the amount of people that can be seated at each table. Also, remember that people will only be sitting for a short while during dinner at the reception. Everyone will want to mingle during cocktail hour, and then it’s on your feet to dance the night away!

You just need to make sure that the people at the table will get along for that short window of sitting time. Most of your friends will get along with your other friends, that’s why you’re friends with them in the first place! Just don’t sit the two political talkers from each side at the same table for everyone else’s sake.

No need to stress though that every table has the perfect mix of people, just remember that people are most comfortable when they know some of their seated companions. Not even your most sociable friend will want to sit at a table full of complete strangers, so put acquaintances together when you can.

If you have a friend that may not know anyone else, that childhood friend from a different state that hasn’t met any of your buddies; then you could think of allowing them a plus one (even if you aren’t allowing them across the board) and seat them near guests with similar interests.

Don’t Forget the Kids!

If you’re allowing children at your wedding, try to put all kids 5 and up at a table of their own. If the child is under 5, consider placing them with their parents as they might not be comfortable at a table without them. If your flower girl and ring bearer are the only children present, most definitely seat them with their parents.

 

5 Reasons We Love Zola

You’ve made it this far, you can do it! We know planning a wedding is stressful and includes tons of components, one being a wedding registry. Why do you need one? Having a wedding registry allows guests to give you a gift you not only love but many times, need. Couples all have different circumstances. In fact, now of days it’s becoming more popular for couples to have already bought their first home together before they get married. That means that not every couple will be looking for a blender on their big day.

We love the idea of unique wedding registries, we’ve even written a blog post on it before! But we can’t be without a great wedding registry system that allows us to utilize the internet to its fullest. That’s why we were so excited when we heard of Zola!

Zola is an all-in-one registry for the modern couple. Unlike traditional registries, Zola offers the opportunity to register for the best products, experiences, and cash and honeymoon funds. There’s something for every couple regardless of their stage in the relationship! We also offer group gifting and price matching options which make it easy for guests to buy gifts. Once the gift is purchased, the Zola user has the option to ship it whenever they’d like, and even exchange items for store credit or transfer cash gifts.

Reasons We Love Zola

1. Easy to Sign Up & Register Gifts

Opening up an account is free and super easy! It took us only about 1 minute, then we got to start registering, just take a look at our account. The search results are perfect, you can choose the color, brand, price, etc. to find exactly what you want. They even explain why they love each product! They even have registry checklists custom to your needs and wants!

2. More than Just Stuff

One of our favorite parts about Zola, you can create a custom fund for a trip, buying a home, anything your heart desires! Your guests can either give fixed amounts, or they can give a personalized amount, it all depends on your preference.

A local bride, Emily, also raved to us about this feature saying,

The biggest reason we used Zola was that it was a universal registry. We didn’t have to just choose items from a few different stores. We could choose the exact item we wanted without having to register at like 10 places. It just made it easier on us because you can add an item easily to your registry with their Zola extension from your phone or laptop no matter what site you were on (Amazon, Crate and Barrel, Macy’s, Keurig etc).

3. Price Planning, Price Matching, & Free Shipping

Move over Amazon, Zola has your best features covered. Price matching is a staple in the digital world and this wedding registry didn’t forget it! But be quick, they give a 48-hour window for price matching. Free shipping is also available for items that ship by ground shipping.

Zola also include a planning feature that shows a chart of the price of your gifts and recommendations for how many gifts in each range! So much easier than taking it by ear.

4. Custom Web link

When you utilize a traditional wedding registry, you either have to go in store or try to find where the store’s online registry exists and sometimes information about the bride and groom you may not know. That’s why it is so convenient that you are given an easy to use web link for your wedding! Check it out, our is zola.com/registry/patspeak it will fit perfectly on any save the date!

5. Customized Shipping 

That same local bride, Emily, let us know about the hands down best feature to ever come from a registry:

If people weren’t coming to the shower or if a bride was having a shower away from her house, people could choose the option to ship to home but the bride chooses when they should be shipped. Just makes it easier rather than having a bunch of different shipments arrive at different times, I could ship them all at the same time. Or if I were traveling, they wouldn’t be delivered while I was away.

Cheers! Let’s Create your Signature Drink

You’ve given your utmost attention to even the smallest of details throughout your wedding planning. Now, let’s talk about just one more! Creating a signature drink (or two) for you wedding will not only be memorable for your guests, but every year you and your husband can make that drink to celebrate!

What is Your Go-To Drink?

To create a signature drink that you’ll actually love, you need to start with looking at both of your standard order. Leanne Strickler, the head mixologist and signature-cocktail-crafting pro with Blue Plate in Chicago, places drinks in four categories:

  1. Strong like a Manhattan
  2. Sour like a Tom Collins
  3. Sweet like a French martini
  4. Low alcohol, with something like sparkling wine as the base

This will help determine the alcohol level of your drink and will start giving you a better idea of the flavor profile.

What’s Trending?

Looking at the latest trends can bring lots of new ideas to the table. We all know the seasonal trends, spices for the Autumn, lemonade for the Summer, and floral for the Spring, but you can also use the flavor combinations of the now! 2017 is the year of tradition and according to Vogue, rum is the new tequila and guests are looking for more Spirits.

You can also incorporate trending colors. However, we encourage you to stay away from trying to make the drink a different color and include the color through garnishes. Millenial pink is the color of 2017, but that doesn’t mean you should drink it! Try garnishing your drink with an edible flower link the Redbud instead of using food dye or making a drink just because of the color.

Bring in Your Style

This is your drink, drawing in your style can be one of the best ways to add your personality into this drink. This could be your personal everyday style of the theme of your wedding. If you’re having a rustic wedding, think about including a spin on old favorites; instead of just a Jack and Ginger, take a nice bottle of Jack Daniels, add in half teaspoon of honey with some fresh ginger and top the drink off with soda water.

Make a Party of It

If you needed an excuse to have a party, bring all of your friends in on it! Have a mixology party where you can all try and create the best cocktails that showcase the bride, the groom, the theme, and/or the overall style of you both!

Witty, Tear-Jerking, and Genuine Wedding Vow Ideas

Now of days, writing wedding vows has started to become more attractive than traditional wedding vows. They can be much more of a personal touch, but when you start thinking about writing your wedding vows, many of us get stuck at one point or another. We love our better half but writing it down with so many words can be difficult, especially if you are not a strong writer but even if you are! However, once you start writing, you can wow your guests!

Before you start writing, talk to your better half and see what direction they are taking their vows. Some couples want a romantic wedding all around, others want their soon-to-be spouse to write as they feel. That’s exactly why we wanted to give you a guide to the trifecta of wedding vow writing, the witty, the tears, and all the feels!

Are you the funny one in the family always making everyone laugh? Or maybe you’re not but want to stretch your talents and show more of your witty side that your bride or groom has only really seen before. When you start writing witty vows, make sure you don’t just have all jokes. This is your wedding day! You should still include emotion in your writing and tell a story of why you love your new wife or husband.

Once you have an idea of the warm material, start thinking about the inside jokes you have together. Are you both sports fans? Maybe you are diehard Boston fans, consider modifying a line from “Sweet Caroline” into your vows.

“I, Adam, take you, Sweet Maria. Good times never seemed so good. I’ve been inclined to believe they never would, but now I know, you always understood.”

Maybe one or both of you are Trekkies (Star Trek fans). Instead of writing a line Klingon that only a few people will know, consider including an analogy of the two of you and the series.

“I, Kate, take you, Sam, I may not have a beard but with this ring, I give to you, is made from a hammer, with this I vow to fight to the death for you, my Kahless.”

Does one of you not know how to cook? Or maybe, one is an adventurous chef that likes to try new dinner ideas that involve cow tongues or interesting looking fish.

“I, Mark, take you, Hannah, I figure as long as you bring me my Bud, I promise I will try to eat your cooking as long as you don’t make me look at it first.”

No matter the interest you both have, the more important part of writing wedding vows to be sincere and genuine. Don’t try to be a couple you are not, but have fun when writing your vows. Keep them simple but make sure to always include some of the best parts of your relationship.

Flight Travel for the Budget Savvy Bride

Whether you want to travel away for your honeymoon, bachelor/bachelorette party, or even your wedding! The costs seem to be too high to even consider it! The average cost of a domestic flight in the US is $346.72, and this is without any luggage fees! Here’s what you have to do to get that price down!

Cheapest Days and Times to Buy

Can’t wait to book the flight? Try to at least wait 3.5 months before you go.

  • Waiting can be your best friend. Booking at an average of 54 days before you go is shown to give buyers the best pricing options. Now, that is an average and based on the study from Cheap Air, your best window is between 3 weeks and 3.5 months out from your vacation date. However, you should keep an eye on the changes in prices and the days of the week.
  • Best day to shop: The best time to book a flight in the U.S. is usually Tuesday at about 3 p.m. Eastern Standard Time.

Reason: Many airlines release weekly sales late Monday or early Tuesday and by mid-afternoon, competing airlines have matched the lowest prices to show up on the first page result.

Cheapest Days and Times to Fly

Don’t want to fly during the cheapest times? Try to at least fly one leg with them!

  • Travel during inconvenient times. That would be when most people wouldn’t want to fly, overnight or during meal times.
  • Cheapest days: The cheapest days to fly in the U.S. are Tuesdays, Wednesday, Saturdays. Midweek is typically best for any international flights.

Cheapest Locations to Fly by Month

None of these most affordable places to fly to are up your alley? Try looking for places near these you can drive to from here!

  • January:
    • Domestic: Los Angeles
    • International: Melbourne
  • February:
    • Domestic: Honolulu
    • International: Hong Kong
  • March:
    • Domestic:  Flagstaff, Arizona
    • International: Buenos Aires
  • April:
    • Domestic: Chicago
    • International: Copenhagen
  • May:
    • Domestic: Fort Lauderdale, Florida
    • International: London
  • June:
    • Domestic: San Antonio, Texas
    • International: Beijing
  • July:
    • Domestic: Boston
    • International: Sydney
  • August:
    • Domestic: New York City
    • International: Berlin
  • September:
    • Domestic: Orlando
    • International: Rome, Italy
  • October:
    • Domestic: New Orleans
    • International: Cape Town, South Africa
  • November:
    • Domestic: San Francisco
    • International: Rio de Janiero
  • December:
    • Domestic: Las Vegas
    • International: Frankfurt, Germany

How to have an Eco-Friendly Wedding

Many of us have become eco-conscientious over the years and for a good reason. According to research, New Hampshire is the 9th most eco-friendly state but our two neighbors Vermont and Massachusetts are numbers 1 and 2 on that list respectively.

How can you stay eco-friendly? Let’s start with…

The Dress

Wearing a wedding dress for the first time can feel unreal, after all of those childhood wedding dreams it is finally becoming a reality! Many brides do have a problem with only being able to wear their wedding dress once then off to a sealed bag for the remainder of its life. Instead, try these options:

Wearing mom’s/grandma’s/auntie’s dress. This could be the same for any special person in your life. If you don’t love the dress exactly as it is, ask for a local seamstress to help modify the dress to your wants.

Renting a dress. Now, this option is becoming more popular as wedding dress prices have increased over the years. Look at a site like:

  1. Tradesy.com– Buy direct from other brides selling their gowns.
  2. PreownedWeddingGowns.com– You can find designer labels at 80% off!
  3. Newlywed.com– They have a “try before you buy” option, no commitments!

Buying from an eco-friendly designer. You can use a local designer or shop at up and coming sustainable designer Reformation.

The Invitations

Use recycled paper. Now, this is a must for an eco-friendly person but keep in mind that not only the paper should be recycled, but you could have a drop box at the wedding for those invitations.

Use seed paper. Everything from your save the dates to thank you cards can be made with seed paper from Bloomin.

At Bloomin our Seed Paper is made by hand in Boulder, CO. We take un-dyed, 100% post-consumer/ post-industrial recycled paper, break it down into paper pulp that started as FSC paper. We use old-school paper making techniques and handmade molds and deckles to handcraft each sheet. Bloomin Paper is packed with flower, vegetable, herb, grass, tree and many other varieties of seeds. Its easy to grow and cultivate! For consumers who receive seed paper, just soak the paper in water, plant under a thin layer of soil, and watch our seed paper take root and sprout in a few short days!

 

The Night

Make sure the flowers are organic. Ask your florist for all organic flowers that are in season.

Have the wedding outside. If possible, having an outdoor wedding will save on energy for the lights during the ceremony.

Have a recycle bin. We mentioned this before, you can help the venue if the do recycle or make sure all items get recycled yourself afterward.

Team up with another bride to share all decorations. This can be tricky since you both have to compromise, but you can help save the environment and costs with this option!